It’s remarkable how much of our lives is governed by the quiet tyranny of “should.” We diligently pursue tasks that seem virtuous or necessary, yet rarely pause to ask the far more daring question: “What do I truly want?”
The voice of “should” pretends to guide us toward success or virtue, but it often fuels anxiety and drains our energy, tethering us to goals that remain perpetually out of reach. It keeps us chasing approval rather than fulfillment.
The true art of living lies in embracing “I want.” This isn’t selfish—it’s courageous. By honoring what we truly desire, we free ourselves from the endless demands of “should” and focus our energy on what genuinely matters. The voice of “should” is insatiable, but the voice of “want” knows where peace begins.
